Boys stopped to pray
HELP ME RECOVER
Our sister is asking for help-
.. even at home, they drag their feet and pray in the mosque a bit to Ramadhan. If I don't say something on this subject, they do all the prayers.
It is, is it wrong or hard when I tell them that if Rasulullah was here our House would probably be burned (in reference to a hadeeth)that he wanted all men to go to mosque salah?
My husband said that if they go for Maghrib is enough because they could get "grilled" or the fact that they will because they are afraid of me... I am so confused... I told them whether they like it or not, they have to go... it's like salah and fasting, no choice you gotta go as the mosque is so very close to us... so help me please by Sheikh Yusuf...
Am I too severe a MOM?
I would like to know how to make it better - or I tell the truth?
Inshaallah this is too complicated for you Inshaallah.
. Answer:
Bismillah Rahman Rahim was salat was salam ala rasool al kareem, maa ba would. -No, this is not too complicated to me at all. I am happy when a MOM has so much concern for his children and does not play around Islam. You're doing something very good - you help your children achieve victory over shayton and go to heaven, God willing.
It seems that your family is, Walid, good Muslims who love Allah and want to approach him. You try maybe a little too much push right now for their particular condition? I do not know what they live or they know, but I'd love to see them increase their (worship) ibadah at least a little bit every day.
Consider whether they could pray at least two larger salat in the masjid, it would be a good start. (Fajr and Esha) They are mentioned in the hadeeth on nifaq (hypocrisy), and each of us must be aware of the lack of these great blessings in the jamma'h (Congregation).
You mentioned that they are very close to the mosque, in this case, it is more important than if they lived in 30 minutes or more. But take care of do not to make a fatwa (Islamic decision) based on the hadith that one or two. There is something that all scientists must take into account when a fatwa, which is the (conditions) ahwal surrounding the circumstances.
Continue to encourage them to pray at least something in the masjid all day. Then slowly increase from one to two, then three, etc. You could also show approval their when they return from the mosque and even treats for them a way to appreciation. After all, you receive the blessings of Allaah increased ALA for calling to these good deeds. You could also ask to drive you and the other in the salat at home in case they do not reach the mosque. It is also a jammat, but not as much as the mosque. If they live quite near to hear the adhan, then they should strive to participate, as their salat made after that which can not count if they could have easily been in the jammat.
Don't worry the hadeeth house burning too much right away. I read the explanations of scholars on this subject and it is not good to take this out of context.
Remember too, you want what they do for Allah and not just to make you happy. After that you and I went, we want our children to continue their journey to Allah and his paradise.
Remember these days, we should be happy as long as they improve a little, day after day. Because it's better than a straw fire and then nothing.
Our Prophet, peace be upon him, told us what it means in English, "Allah loves what is done on a regular basis, even if it is small, more that what is great, but is done only once".
Pray Allah Guide (and we all), God willing.
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